For a long time I settled with men way less than what I deserved. I didn't realize that until I met Matt and found out I was wrong all along. This angel without any wings came and swept me off my feet showing me true, rare love! I already had a child from a previous relationship, and instead of looking down upon that, he took Ryen under his wing as his own. (They are best friends now.) He's kind, sweet, loves the Lord, hilarious, dies to himself everyday, and becomes a better father and husband as each day passes.
Last year (2012) we decided we wanted another baby so that Ryen could have a sibling closer in age. I am one of six children, so sibling bonding is important to me. The day after fathers day we discovered we were pregnant. We were so excited, but Matt wanted to better our future. We fought and fought so Matt could go active, but Ryens dad, at the time, wouldn't allow it. But that's besides the point. We decided the best route would be the reserves (which I was way more relieved about considering we won't have to pack up our lives and move 2 billion times) ;). In January of this year (2013) he enlisted and we became apart of a world we knew nothing about. Well he knew a lot, but I was oblivious. I just knew I would support him in any decisions he made no matter what. June 18th, 2013 I said goodbye to my soldier! Hardest thing in the whole world to do is say goodbye to not only your lover, but your best friend as well. So far it's been a pain in the ass....
Not only was his plane delayed, the bus never picked him and 16 other soldiers up on the right day. He should have already shipped from reception days ago, but instead is still sitting there. Basic is 10 weeks, but now it may be pushed back 2 extra weeks -__-. Then he goes off to AIT (Army school) for another 10 weeks.... Now, I don't know about you, but thats a long time to go without hugging, holding, kissing, loving, and laughing with your husband! The military emotionally and sexually deprives you! HA.
I just want to be of some encouragement to any women who have their man brave enough to leave for the military. As hard as it is, it's so important to stand tall and be strong. Be nothing but encouraging to one another. I love my husband more than anything in the world, but in just one week, I discovered a deeper stronger love for that man then I never knew possible. I am so incredibly proud that he is so unselfish to sacrifice and put his family first. I once heard someone say that leaving your family for the military is pathetic. Let me tell you, it is the farthest from pathetic anyone can get!
So far army life has been heartbreaking. But it has also shown me and my husband just how far our marriage can go! Just how strong we are and how much we love one another. In the long run our future is looking great, and our family will be happy, healthy, and strong. I'll keep you updated as we get further into army life, and take you on this journey with us! As hard as this is, I am so glad we are Army Strong -xoxo
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